Why’d you stick around?
Why’d you stay with me?
Why’d you fake it?
—The Neighbourhood - Honest
Anonymous asked: So basically im in love with this girl but shes in love with another guy that treats her extremely terrible what do i do and how do i win her over how can i get her to not be with him it hurts a lot seeing her be hurt over and over again and it hurts even more knowing i could change it but she wont let me please try and help me
Awh thanks for asking me advise. I’m really shitty with relations but I’ll give it a try :)
I think that first of all should respect the circumstance of the situation she’s in. What she’s having seems like an unhealty relationship, but she’s still in it. So as long as she’s not forced by someone to stay in it, it’s her choice too. So just keep that in mind and don’t push her to do anything.
I don’t know how close you are with her, but make sure you’re (getting) close to her and she talks alot about her personal stuff. This means she trust you and wants your opinion about things.
Once the topic of her boyfriend is on just give your opinion and tell her what she deserves, not saying this is you. You could say things like:
- you deserve to be happy
- you deserve someone who likes your hobbies
- someone who takes time for you
- Just say stuff her current boyfriend isn’t doing
Most of the time people in an unheatly relationship are in love with the idea of being (a long time) in a relationship, not in love with the person.
Give her some advise, talk about this and how you see her relationship without talking about you. Just say facts or things you’ve noticed.
If she breaks up don’t get flirty already. Give her some time to think and rest a bit. At some point you’ll know it’s time to make a move.
I’m sorry if this seems like crap, it probably is haha. But it’s the best I could do. I hope I could help you a bit, but every person works different and I can’t predict their reactions. So I hope this works out for you.
Big kiss and good luck
Ps. Be patient, I somehow got a date this Sunday with a guy I noticed a year ago, so sometimes you have to
ow and sorry it took a long time to reply and for the long post. Hope to hear from you how it all will go :)
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My head in the clouds
You wouldn’t search anyway
I tried to love you, baby
Something is wrong with me
Poor little princess